Most men get stuck when it comes to making a girl of their choice fall in love. The means in which men use to attract and attack does not last but ends up being a relationship of lust.
It’s true that it hurts to love someone and never to be loved in return but what is more painful is to never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
Here are some of the ways in which men can become gentle to their ladies and end up in a long lasting lovely relationship.
Be pursuant; approach her with some courtesy and without pressure. Ask her sincere questions and sound genuine to her.
Be a gentleman; treat her like a princess because girls dislike being treated like queens. This means you have to take full control and responsibility of doing things for her, for instance protecting her, opening a car door for her, in a hotel you pull a chair for her, on the road walk let her be on your left hand side. In being a gentleman one has to be selfless.
Be complementary; appreciate her dressing code whenever you meet up, tell her that she looks prettier without make up. Make her appreciate herself and appreciate you for choosing her.
Be intentional; do not be too serious about on everything, because after all life is never that serious. Make her smile if not laughing, ask her about the people who matter, make her know your feelings for her and try to make her understand why you are who are.
Speak well of her in front of other people; this way she will build trust in you and her self esteem will be boosted whenever she is around you and the safer she feels the better for you.
Be attentive; you can start and continue a conversation because at first she may feel timid (depending with her personality) but do not talk more than her. Do much of the listening and try to pop in relative questions to the talk, that way you’ll have 100 per cent chance of being graded as a wise man!
Be mindful of the body language and choice of words; ladies or women tend to master a lot and recall situations faster than men. So whenever you are trying to ” market” yourself don’t lie a lot because you will easily forget and she will remember them all. That will not be safe for you.
Be independent; that will make you busy and she will definitely appreciate the fact that you are making efforts in your living to make ends meet but do not forget to allocate time for her.
Be romantic; make every situation to be a “story of my life” experience. You can do that by; Surprising her with gifts, taking her for movies, nature walk and by also doing things step at a time. That is, for your first kiss let it be exemplary remarkable for you two, then the next steps you can suggest and agree.
There is only one happiness in this life, to love and to be loved. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. We are most alive when we are in love. The only thing we never get enough is love; and the only thing we never give enough is love.
By Adah Tanui